7 Signs You Have Found “THE ONE”
They say “Love conquers all”! It empowers you to bravely face the world, fight the odds and overcome the many adversities of life, as long as you are together with your one true love. But let’s admit it, finding the one isn’t easy as ABC’s and 123’s when nowadays, people get stuck with whirlwind romances, fairy tale fantasies and trending hook-ups.
Oftentimes, true love becomes unreachable but wait… How do you even know you have found that one special person you will spend the rest of your life with? That one particular person who can make you feel that indeed, love can conquer all? Get ready, because here are the signs if you have found “The One”:
He accepts you just the way you are.
Now you are able to let go of your pretentions and enjoy the natural you. Your weird quirks, your out of style fashion, your lame cooking, these will never be a problem because he will acknowledge everything that what makes you as a person is the same reason he wants to be with you. How fulfilling is it to have the one, love you just the way you are!
He supports you every step of the way.
All of us have dreams we want to pursue like the family you have ever hoped for since you were a kid or a career development you have been eyeing for years. If he is the one, he will support you every step of the way, encouraging you and making you believe in yourself over and over again. He will become the wind beneath your wings, always pushing you to move forward and reach for your dreams.
He listens to you.
Bad day at work? Family problems? Swirling emotions? Surprise promotion? Whatever it is, he is there to listen! You can whine about your sloppy day at work or complain about your sister who always gets her way or just blabber about that promotion you have finally achieved. Yes, you can talk to him and yes, he will always listen.
He makes you be more.
When you love someone, when you truly love someone you always want to provide the best and be the best for that person. Because while he loves you for who you really are, imagine the sweet triumph of improving yourself and sharing the more wonderful you with the one you love. It’s a win win situation!
He talks to you.
While others have a hard time reaching to someone, the one finds comfort sharing with you his thoughts and emotions. He reaches out to you because he knows honest communication is what it takes to be in a healthy relationship. Remember it is not enough to just listen, you also need to speak.
He’s not afraid of commitments.
It’s common to back away from commitments because it takes a bold person to handle one. But don’t fret, if he is the one he will handle commitments like a real man. Whether small or big promises, he makes sure he holds into it like he grasps into his principles and values. If he’s the one, he will be committed to you like you are committed to him.
You are happy together
What’s the use of all these signs if you are not happy with your one true love? You have found the one if complementarily you make each other happy because you are satisfied with your relationship. All of a sudden you find yourself smiling just thinking of that person, all of a sudden you hope for a lifetime to spend with that person who can make you happy inside and out because of his love for you.
So, are you ready to find The One? Or might he just be sitting next to you? It won’t be easy, it won’t be fast but you know what, it will all be worth it!