They’re everywhere and they’re out to break women’s hearts. These players’ only motive is to seek sexual pleasure from a woman and leave them heartbroken. They brush away the notion of love and are only aiming to satisfy their cravings for physical pleasure. They just don’t believe in emotional connections and treat their player antics as a measure of their manliness and achievement.
You can easily spot these types of men. The best ones however, are the ones you clearly have to steer clear from. They are so good that they can be very subtle about their tactics. They are very good in hiding their true intentions. They are like the stealthy predators that jump in on their prey when they least expect it.
Although you can’t identify them from a mile away, here are a few telltale signs to tell if he’s a player.
Too smooth for his own good. He’s suave. He’s a “stud”. He’s just stunning. He has good conversation skills. They are so self-assured and the way this is projected in their level of self-confidence is how you can tell he’s a player. He’s like a mini celebrity and girls just flock to him. They have simply mastered the art of flirting. Beware of this man, he’s out to make you swoon but he won’t be catching you when you fall.
He’s too good to be true. Which is what he probably is. He’s just too interesting! He will project himself in such a way that comes across as if he’s the most “interesting” guy you’ve ever met! He’ll have all these hobbies, passions, and goals that every woman wishes their man to have. The truth is, there’s no such thing as Mr. Perfect. If he appears that way, you’re in trouble woman.
He flirts… A LOT. They enter a bar and look at every potential “victim”. They don’t waste their time on a single woman. Instead, they explore all their options out in the open. They are not subtle about it. If a woman rejects their advancements, they easily move on to the next. These types of men are often found talking to different women all throughout the night.
He’s faking interest in you. Although your gut feeling will tell you this from the start, women can get blinded with praises and attention. He’ll make you feel like you’re the center of his universe. He’ll be interested in everything you have to say but he won’t remember a single thing the next day.
He makes you impulsive. You are blinded with your attraction to him. They target women who seem easy. He’ll instigate feelings of sexual attraction in you and in no time you will find that he’s made you act out the impulse.
So how do tell if he’s a player?
Simple. Just make him wait for sex. If he gets bored, frustrated, or impatient with you, then you know for sure. If he’s really into you, he’ll wait. He won’t disappear just because you are not ready to be intimate with him.