When To Have Sex with A Guy?

We all recognize that within a relationship, there is a power balance that exists, especially when it comes to having sex with a guy and knowing the right time to have sex with a guy is everything. This power balance determines who is in control of a relationship and whether it will stand the test of time.

This is a very sensitive topic in the sense that for people who are still dating power is everything. Now, there is a popular line that explains how the vying for power works in a romantic relationship:

“Before a women has sex with a guy, she has all the power. Afterward, he has all the power.”

Having sex tips the balance in a relationship and timing is everything. It will also have a significant impact in the relationship as it can help to deepen it or turn it into a physical thing with no foundation.

Here’s the deal. Most men want sex while most women like a commitment. Before you go and get your pitchforks, this is not saying that men don’t want to commit. It’s just that they are not into the dating game for that reason. It’s a biological thing with a hint of social pressure. In other words, modern alpha men are just wired like that. Now, knowing this tells us that in a relationship there exists two kinds of powers:

  1. A Woman has control when it comes to sex and has the power to give it to the man or not.
  2. A Man, on the other hand, has the power to solidify a commitment or not.

Of course, there will always be exceptions.

So should women have sex with a guy right off the bat just for the heck of it and expect good things in return?

The answer is a resounding no. We have heard tons of stories of women getting left behind right after they had sex with a guy. If not immediately, the relationship drifts into some sort of physical need thing where they hook up at 2 am every other day to have sex.  This is not what you deserve as a woman.

The thing is you have to decide to give it to the guy only when you have developed a real and genuine connection with each other. It doesn’t mean just because he showed you pictures of his dog and told you a story about his childhood dreams that you are now connected. The right time for you to do the deed with the guy is when you yourself can see if he has shown a level of investment in you and your relationship.

Women still have to remember that doing the deed even when you are sure about the guy will not give you some sort of guarantee of a relationship. You should do it when you feel it’s the right time and not when you feel pressured to do it. This way, even if things turn sour, you will have no regrets. You see men fall in love and commit to a woman if she makes him feel good. When you can see the twinkle in his eye, when he wants to spend time with you and goes the extra mile for you there is something special developing. The best time to have sex with a man is when you feel your relationship has progressed to the next level and you have had the relationship talk. So think about all of the above tips to determine when to have sex with a guy because timing is everything!



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