Turn the lady killer into a lady lover! Master the art of making the non-committer commit with these tips!
#1 Be of value.
Make him feel like he’s never gonna meet another one quite like you. Be someone he’d want around all the time. Men stick around to those things and people they treasure.
#2 Know what you want.
Stick to your ideals and never settle for anything less than you deserve. If you want someone who can be your bestfriend, someone who can make you laugh and make great memories with, or someone with whom you can travel with, then let the guy know. Nothing spells more sexy than a woman who knows what she wants.
#3 Make a move.
Not all love stories are fairy tales. If you wish to make things happen, make them happen. Some guys may just be too shy to approach you so don’t let this ruin your chance at love. Don’t be afraid to make the first move. If he responds, then good. If he doesn’t, don’t persist.
#4 Skip the ‘future’ conversation.
If you want a guy to disappear in a jiffy, talk about your wedding plans and how many kids you wish to have. Do not talk about the future as men are naturally commitment-phobes. Let him be the one to open up the topic and if he does, well you’re one lucky girl.
#5 Make his friends your friends.
Before you, he’d probably hang out with his friends all the time. Every guy wants their girl to get along with his friends. That doesn’t only make you an awesome girlfriend, but it also give you the spot of the ‘bestfriend’. Everybody loves to be around the best friend.
#6 Make his family love you.
Commitment requires a deep attachment and intimacy. His family is the closest thing he holds, so if you can be the girl he introduces to his family, then you are sure to be in the long haul!
#7 Don’t rob him of his independence.
Men take pride in being independent and they love their freedom that any threat to it can cause them to scamper away. Don’t be the nagger who would make him feel suffocated in the relationship. Allow him space and let him be. He’ll appreciate you even more and consider you a keeper.
#8 Make him wait.
Men love sex. But if that’s all he wants from you, you’re in trouble. He’ll leave as soon as another hot chick hits the town. But don’t appear too cold, shut him down, or make him feel unwanted. Make sure he wants you for who you are and not for your body. There should be an emotional connection between you two before you engage in sex.